‘Tis the season for living-out one’s fantasies, whether that involves being dressed as a leather-clad dungeon keeper or as a fluffy-bunny headed to a slumber party, Halloween is a frisky night for terrors and treats. And if you need a little story of terror turning into something sweet, there is plenty of nipple-hardening erotica for dungeons or between the sheets.
Whatever your fantasy or costume, all or any of these sites will add to the luxury of devious desires this holiday provides. Dress-up, get undressed and have a Happy Halloween!
The slinky black dress is every woman’s go-to outfit, and its versatility blossoms during the Halloween season. A witch hat, butterfly wings, a touch of glitter, a hint of an iridescent bra or panty line . . .
That’s right, this Halloween you can go as the “Ghost with the Most under her Clothes” or as the “Haunted Hottie,” or as the “Glow Stick’s Evil Twin,” etc. Ashleyssextoys.com is selling glow-in-the-dark g-strings and pasties. The possibilities are endless . . . an electric eel, an evil snake lady . . . oooh, then there are the possibilities involving glow-in-the-dark body paint . . .
I believe I’ll be going as a fairy again this year. My little black dress, which is modestly see-through, will be well accompanied by my pair of glowing girls . . .
Tantra.com is not a pornographic site. It is an educational site that displays real people doing what appears to be having real sex. The people tend to not be especially attractive, in that highly instructive kind of way. What is the opposite of TILF . . .
For the price of $15/ month, on special for $135/ year, you receive a little Tantra library, or maybe more of a big Tantra book. Like a boring book might, this site repeats its imagery and wording frequently. Yes, the female orgasm is real. Yes, he likes it when you make him almost jiz; then bring him back; and again . . . (duh)
The concepts of Tantra are well explained by the site. The expertise is there. The diagrams are there. The eerie message boards with posts from guys in mock turtlenecks “Looking for a female spiritual explorer . . .” are also there.
This is the site I’d buy a subscription to for my little sister: it purports a clean side to dirty sex. Or if I’d buy in if I wanted to get really into Tantra but didn’t want to deal with those pesky libraries or bookstores. But it is more likely I’ll take a jaunt to a store and enjoy a latte while browsing. Another option is Tantra-sex.com, which isn’t the easiest to navigate, but acts as an informative online store complete with articles.
So Tantra.com is sex but not porn. It purports a spiritual purpose, but is selling itself (amongst other things). It isn’t a dot edu. Oh, right, it is a dot com following the outdated Silicone Valley tradition of being both for sale and vaguely condescendng.
Tyra Banks’ October 10 show focused on polyamorous relationships. Not too long ago Dr. Keith Ablow’s hour examined the happily married women of polygamy. Hugh Hefner parades his loving three-girlfriend relationship on the hit The Girls Next Door. Sir Rodney wrote a bit about guys’ desire for multiple partners . . . okay, he really just wrote about porn.
Do women, those not in pornography or on talk shows, really desire multiple partner experiences? Most of the explicit materials geared toward our gentle gender involve romantic couples getting raunchy. Those that don’t appear to mostly involve either three-plus women or two men and one woman; the later appears to be very different from what most men want.
Yet men seem to put an awful lot of energy into trying to figure out, and fantasizing about, how to get women into a threesome. The author Donald Zimmer, Askmen.com, had quite a bit of insight into bringing in another partner, but the insight seemed a bit conniving and manipulative. One thing most men forget is that women can get horny watching other women get wet in pornography because it reminds us of our own sexual potential. Similar to how guys like to see another guy get his dick sucked in the movies. If it weren’t so, there wouldn’t be any male porno-stars.
The thing with group sex and women is that if we want it, we can have it. The thing to remember in this undertaking is what exactly is the want: sex, love, gal pals to share a man with. In all fairness, most of us have spent way too much time figuring out what to wear; well this should take a while to figure out as well.
The polygamists seem to look down on the polyamorous, the former often focused on heterosexuality. Those in the polyamorous camp, who seem to hold love as all expansive (as in it can enter many holes), often appear to look down on the swingers. The swingers, well the swings were always fun on the playground . . .
Of course there are people vehemently against poly-anything, possibly in the name of their cause. There are always people against anything and everything.
But it isn’t what are you against, but is it for you?
As women we ask about the emotion behind sex, the level of the orgasm, the toys/positions involved, but when was the last time we asked about the furniture?
Upon a little Internet investigation, it became clear that it is now possible to design an entire house around sex furniture, inconspicuously.
The angled cushion has every place in the modern living room decorum. Whether lounging over a book or trying to comfortably recline into a lover at the ideal 69 degrees, household cushioning will never stay the same.
For those who like swing sets, well those now come in both dungeon and outdoorsy motifs. Heck, there is even a moisture proof pad that makes for comfortable cushioning beside the pool. (I have to wonder if moisture puddles up or absorbs . . . makes a big difference when choosing between it or a mattress).
Whether into it for decor reasons, because you’re home alone and the laundry must be done, or because it brings you and your partner closer or kinkier, now the whole house can be done in sexiness and look like it is from IKEA. Whether using IKEA or not, try Tok & Stok’s ideas for using their furniture.
For that matter, IKEA may be loosing a whole new market by not using the slogan: Furniture, it’s not just for bondage anymore.
